Volunteers are not worthless because they are not paid.
Volunteers are not paid, because they are PRICELESS!

                                               Empowering the Future

I often say that being diagnosed with breast cancer at the age of 33 was a blessing. I’ve had to explain that comment to many, especially to those who have never faced a life-changing diagnosis. My explanation usually includes all the positive changes in my life, thoughts and more importantly my priorities. The most significant blessing is the people in my life who have changed me and my life.

When the treatments began I found that there were not many women my age diagnosed with breast cancer and the challenges I faced were different than those who were older and in that so called average age for breast cancer diagnosis. My kids were still in elementary school and just starting to become active in extracurricular interests. That was eleven years ago. Sadly, more and younger women are being diagnosed each year. I prefer to believe that it is the diligent work in the areas of education and awareness through Susan G. Komen for the Cure that is leading to these younger women joining our world. Thankfully, the other advances made in treatments through the funded research has in some ways made it easier for all being diagnosed including those in their 20’s and younger.

It is hard to imagine facing the physical challenges of treatment today at 44, so to some degree being physically younger when diagnosed has worked in my favor. Dealing with the high-dose chemotherapy with stem cell rescue was very difficult physically and mentally. I chose to fight as it was imperative that I see my kids graduate high school. In fact, I believe that a big part of my desire to fight was my kids and their future. Equally important is the belief that I was given this challenge for a reason and the changes it created have been positive. If, after facing the negative, your life is blessed isn’t it a good thing that your new life start sooner and at a younger age? I think so! What the devil has meant for evil, God has turned around for good.

In some ways, my kids and their life beyond my treatments have kept me in a “younger” world. We were definitely the “kool-aid” house during the high school years! Since I have chosen to work with our local Komen affiliate and proudly advertise my survivor status I have been able to influence the younger generation and in turn educate them and their parents. This opportunity is taken seriously and passionately.

I believe we inspire and lead by example and it is not about words, but more about deeds AND doing. We have an awesome opportunity to make a difference and as it relates to the younger generation, I passionately believe that it is our RESPONSIBILITY to demonstrate and teach them the value of making a difference and giving back.

            The work with Komen and participation in events, specifically the Race for the Cure©, has not only molded the rest of my life but also those closest to me. After participating in several races, my daughter chose to run cross country in high school. She and her teammates inspired me to run competitively. In 2005, she and I ran 25 competitive races together and in eleven years we have participated in 24 Race for the Cure© events. This ultimately led to my being named the 2006 Suzy Komen award winner! Words cannot express how honored I am to have this coveted award and I believe that the doors that have opened are an opportunity and obligation to spread my message and affect future generations by educating and spreading hope

While we do not have a choice in some of the challenges we face, we can choose our attitude. It is that attitude that will mold our character. I am empowered by my volunteerism! Komen is my support group and working and/or participating in events is my therapy. I encourage everyone to become empowered by volunteering. We each have a talent and it is when we give, it becomes a gift.

It is no secret that the younger generation is influenced more by our actions than what we say. Quite often we see how our negative thoughts and actions have molded their future, so it is encouraging when we hear how our positive influence has shaped the world. Choose your words wisely and be even more cautious in your actions…you never know who is listening or watching.

My sister recently shared a story, which is an encouraging and humorous example of how we influence others          .

            My 5 year old nephew, Ryan, was curled up with his Mom having one of their deep conversations.
           "When are we going to that Kansas thing, again", he asked?
           "Kansas thing" .they had never been to Kansas.."what Kansas thing"?
           "You know, that running thing we do for Connie" he replied.
           "I don't know what thing you are talking about, buddy.,.Kansas thing?" She was still very confused and did not remember this particular incident.
           "You KNOW!" he replied, showing a little frustration, "That running thing we do for bread kansas!"

May the HOPE be with you!

Running across the finish line with my Buddy!
Cheyenne, WY Race for the Cure 8/11/07

He beat me ;)